Hard Truths Men Learn Too Late

Jeffrey is going to double text Jessica again, but Adonis grabs his phone and does the unthinkable, attracting Jeffrey's phone to a puny human. Jeffrey must understand that she is not a high quality woman like he desires.

Jeffrey follows Adonis and learns the lessons he needed to learn a few years ago, and then there's You let me tell you my story. You want to fail this year of University because if you fail you have to re-do the entire year. I passed my exams and became an unemployed man, but a part of me just died inside because I realized that I had become an adult sooner than I realized. There are multiple hard truths that men learn around this time whether they went to University or not.

If you're not strong, no one cares about you. There are significantly more men hidden amongst the world who have kind of seeped in and out of government systems, homelessness, struggling with the education system, whatever it is, compared to women.

The women are elderly and we are going to take care of them, the girls are going to take care of them, the boys are going to take care of them, but the men are the ones who take care of the tribe.

When there is scarce resources and one man shows up to take some of the food, what would you genuinely do in that situation If many guys were watching this right now they would probably say that they would kick the man out.

You would banish this young man from your tribe if you heard him listening to degenerate music every day. So I made a new daily Spotify podcast for young guys who want to get onto self-improvement.

The world has gone through a period of feminization over the last few decades that has created a narrative, messaging, and beliefs that are more about for women than men. This advice is actually quite nice for women, but does not work for men.

Ham is actually a really good guy. He's very good at giving advice to others and motivating people, and he's probably motivated over a million guys to get into the gym. If you can't answer that question fast, maybe this is why you feel so bad as a young man. The lower your status, the lower your testosterone and the higher your anxiety.

If you are low status in the social hierarchy of men, life is not going to be good for you. There is also a correlation between your symptoms of anxiety and depression and how low you are in this social hierarchy of men.

Many men won't think like this because it seems too brutal, but this is why I'm talking about it. The higher up you go in this hierarchy the more guys will act towards you like little chimps will towards the sort of bigger gorilla alpha male. They'll come over and fix your necklace for no reason other than just to help you feel higher up.

When you climb up in your social hierarchy, men and women will treat you with more respect, and the lower down you go, the more people will swear at you, even if you're still a nice guy.

It's sad that the world is like this, but you need to understand that the low status guys aren't being utilized, so you need to increase your status.

Another brutal truth of the world is that our parents are actually going to live till they're older. This means that when they can't work anymore, we are going to have to support them financially, which is something that many young men aren prepared for.

Most people send their parents to care homes when they get old, where they are abused by the random people who work there, and they spend the last few years in some random weird house.

If you're ambitious, you'll make tons of money, have a big house, and get your parents a full-time carer.

The generation older than us, like those 40y olds, never had this level of ambition and are being treated horribly because of their weakness, their trust in the system that kept them broke their entire lives.

You absolutely have to make more than enough money to look after your parents, because they are probably going to live till you're 50-60 years old, maybe even longer, and you need to pick up the slack there because your parents probably don't even have a retirement.

When our parents get to 70 they won't have enough money, so we have to become strong, purposeful and develop really good character inside of us. If we don't become successful or wealthy enough 20-30 years from now we will have to make that choice.

Many guys our age are going to struggle tremendously, but pressure is a good thing because it unlocks the next level for you.

When it comes to love and relationships with women, your purpose always has to come before your relationship except for emergencies. Most young guys are too afraid to take this advice.

The advice is to turn off all of your devices and sit in your room empty with a journal for a few days and ask yourself questions about how you want to spend your life and what your purpose is.

For me, my calling is giving advice and helping other people to improve their lives. My woman will often try to drag me away from my purpose, but I have to say no to her because it is one of the sexiest things I can say to her.

Many men struggle because they say yes to their girl's requests to spend time with them, but they don't realize that the time they want to spend with their woman is probably 10 times lower than they actually think it is.

Most guys would be happier in life if they only spent about 4 hours a week with their girlfriends, but if they really ask themselves a bunch of questions they really got to construct their perfect lifestyle, and that's eventually what they would end up at.

When a man is focused on work and has to sleep amongst other men in a training camp, he thinks of his girl in his heart and imagines walking back into his little Hut where his goddess is waiting for him.

We don't have this magical polarity between men and women anymore, we're buddies, we're best friends, and so many guys have deluded themselves into believing that they want to be best friends with their girls just because it's like the normal narrative.

Men have become so depolarized, so weak, so low testosterone that relationships in this modern day do not seem like the normal masculine feminine dynamic. However, sacrificing your relationship for your purpose is actually keeping your relationship alive.

You might not understand this now, but if you look back a few months or years from now you will realize that spending all day with your girlfriend was actually coming from a place of insecurity and anxiousness. When you start to feel more certain of yourself and develop good male friends, you will realize this.

We should look down upon our girls and see them in a different light, like what real love is supposed to be. When in doubt, think about a Warrior walking back into that Hut where his goddess has been waiting for weeks. He is not going to lie down and go scroll on his phone while it's like next to her, he's got something else on his mind.

The last hard truth I want to tell you about is that your mental health is the constraints of your life. All the problems you think are problems are actually symptoms of your mental health. When someone is focused on noof FAP, junk food, video games, content consumption, they constantly are in that sort of binge eat cycle, and they don't realize the reason why they constantly relapse. Because of my mental health issues, I used to work night shifts in homeless accommodation, I was sleep deprived and addicted to porn and video games, and I saw my physique slip in front of my eyes. I started meditating and gratitude journaling and these habits changed my life forever.

The most important thing I could teach you out of every video is improving your mental health, and I made a free course on it that you should watch right now.